Everyone loves receiving accolades for things they do. From the sticker star on our homework to the badges earned in Scouts, children learn to enjoy being rewarded. As adults, we earn a raise on our paycheck, get a pat on the back, receive a thank you card … all for a job well done.
In elementary school, I decided to be a writer, not realizing at the time that this also was God’s calling for me. Before that, I’d already had formed a habit of doing my best in school to see those A’s on my papers and report cards. I tried hard to make sure every essay or story I wrote received a 100%.
But better than that were the notes from the teachers. I thrived on those notes: “Well written! Great story!” I loved those accolades.
Then, I became an adult. When I worked fulltime, my work ethics, a gift from my parents and grandparents, helped me get a good reputation and earned the right of positive recommendations when I moved to different job.
But my writing was another story. Some writers adore seeing their name on a published book. (No book published yet.) Some enjoy getting enough income to buy another book on “how to make money with your writing.” (Been there, done that, bought the book.) And most writers like to hear how their writing affected their readers. (With my devotions in Guideposts, I’m beginning to.) Accolades drip in.
But I’ve found another accolade that outshines all the others for me. I often write books for gifts. I write board books (and have our daughter Holly illustrate them) to give as baby shower gifts. I create 30-day devotionals to give at Christmas. When our daughter Faith turned one, I began writing a book every year for her birthday … from picture books to an American Girl type series of chapter books. (Disclaimer: yes, Faith, I know you’re still waiting for the last couple.)
And then, we had grandchildren! I’d planned on doing as I did for Faith, beginning on each one’s first birthday, but unfortunately, that’s not the case. However, I have written some of them books, and those are the ones which have brought me the accolades that no other awards or honors will ever equal.
For our toddler granddaughter, I wrote a series of tiny board books about trees, something she and her grandma both love. Whenever I visited their home, she’d grab one and climb on my lap. “Read!” And I’d read. “Read ‘gain!” And I’d read again … and again … and again. Those little books became as well-worn as my childhood copy of Big Red. There’s no better praise than “Read ‘gain, Grandma!”
And recently … well, let’s just say no writer has ever received a finer accolade than I got when our grandson invited me to join his play acting and gave himself the name “Peter,” me the name “Kelly,” and his brother the name “Jeff.” To you, those are just names out of the imagination of a six-year-old boy. But to this writer-grandma, those names brought a special joy to my heart.
“Why?” you might ask. Well, for the boys’ recent birthdays, I wrote them the first of a chapter book series based on a game we’ve played in their yard in which we jump through a “trap door stone” into various lands. Their favorite? Dinosaur Valley! And the title of the book series? The Trap Door Adventures. The first book, Adventure Awaits, takes place in Dinosaur Valley, where three cousins—Kelly, Jeff, and Peter—landed when they jumped through the trap door they found in their yard.
The day after we finished the book, our grandson came to me and said, “Hey, Kels (the nickname Peter and Jeff used for Kelly), I’m going to look for some food while you tend that gash on Pete’s head,” an EXACT wording of a line in the book. For the next two hours, we play-acted the entire book, as well as their ideas for book two! Not only was I amazed that he’d listened to the whole story, nor that he’d memorized the lines after hearing them only once (he is his mama’s son!), but that he liked it enough to consider it worthy of his play time … usually reserved for Star Wars or his newest infatuation, The Hobbit.
So, you can keep your Caldecott and Newberry Awards. THIS writer’s awards from the mouths of a toddler and a six-year-old cannot be equalled!
******Your turn to tell me a story! What accolade from your life has meant the most to you? Or is there a story about a time you gave an accolade to someone in a unique fashion? My honors in this blog come in the form of your sharing your stories with me and my readers!
4 thoughts on “Tell Me a Story about … an Accolade!”
I enjoyed reading your blog so very much and thought of times in my childhood when I experienced an accolade. In my grade school I received stars on my art papers a lot! Comments from teachers about how well I drew things, so I guess that helped me do more and become an artist as I am today! I’m so thankful for my gift which my husband encouraged me to get into more, so I did!
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Thank you, Lise’, for the “accolade” on my post, but even more, thank you for your story. I’m sure I’m not the only other person who is ALSO glad you followed your gifting into artistry. 🙂 Blessings!
It’s nice to see you blogging again Cathy 🙂 I enjoyed reading about accolades and it brought up some sweet memories of those stars of all colors on school papers when I was young. Do they do that anymore in school? I’m out of touch with that since all my grandkids are home-schooled. But I wonder. There’s something to feeling you did something well, accomplished something and that someone was proud of you. Adults don’t get enough of that — unless they are a movie star or singing sensation, or in sports, etc. Moms should get stars for motherhood. Not for perfection but for devotion and effort — and survival (ha)! Fathers too. And we could all think of many other examples I’m sure. It’s just nice to be appreciated. Valued by others. Not for bragging rights but just to know we were able to make an important difference to someone. And a good reminder to give those stars to others when they’re needed, so thank you for sharing this. Also — accolades to you on your All God’s Creatures froggy devotional this morning! I’m more into birds than frogs but I have a friend who just loves them and has a pond for them in her backyard. When she retired from our mutual workplace last summer she bequeathed to me her frog windchimes she had hanging on her office wall. Now they hang on my cubicle walls but I think will soon be coming home so I can hang them up outside and enjoy hearing them, as spring comes in more and more. Take care Cathy and have a lovely Saturday!
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Oh, Julie, how happy I was to see the notice that you commented. I’ve put out a post now and then (I think you missed a couple.), but I’m hoping to get regular again … probably every other week for now and posted later in the week (the time considered best by social media gurus). Yes, accolades ARE needed throughout our lives. We used stars and other stickers in homeschooling! And things like adopting a frog! Lol! Thank you for your praises and your comment. Blessings over your Saturday, as well.